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Curated gatherings. You may be experiencing feelings of lack of control, diminished arousal, or guilt. We will go as far as you and I are both comfortable. Beyond the bedroom, edging can improve self-discipline, emotional regulation, and stress management.

Common Challenges You Might Be Facing

Premature ejaculation can be a frustrating experience, leading to sexual dissatisfaction for all partners involved.

It can give you a better understanding of your personal arousal patterns. Coaching can help you decrease your frustration and can impact the overall quality of your sexual experiences.

The Benefits of Edging Coaching

When we work together you’ll get:

  • Personalized guidance tailored to your unique needs

  • Structured training to enhance self-control and pleasure

  • Accountability and support from an experienced coach

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Consent

Every interaction is rooted in clear, mutual consent. It can help you maintain self-control during intimate moments. Studies and personal accounts reveal it's a safe and accessible way to enjoy intimacy without the risks of penetration or emotional entanglements.

Teen boys often experience this during puberty as part of group exploration.

It’s important to remember that you are not bad, and nothing is wrong with you. I’m a certified coach with experience helping individuals master their mental and bodily sensations.

Selective Experiences

Some gatherings are intentionally limited and discreet. As a survivor of sexual abuse myself, I want to keep this space safe for you to discuss anything and everything with as much detail as you’re willing.

Sexual activity doesn’t define orientation — attraction does. Through eye contact, feedback, and rhythm, both partners can practice mindfulness — making them better lovers in other contexts too.

Practicing pleasure without penetration reinforces the idea that intimacy is more than intercourse. And it can give you the ability to achieve pleasurable results more consistently.

Your initial session is all about understanding your needs and creating your personalized plan.

Get in Touch

Feel free to reach out for inquiries or to schedule a consultation:

Email: support@coachalexray.com

Text: +1 619-489-6868 (for residents outside of the USA, Canada or Mexico, please contact me via email)

Frequently Asked Questions

Presence

Denver Jacks events are built around physical presence.

If at any moment it doesn’t — stop. Practicing control, pacing, and non-penetrative pleasure can improve your stamina. Here’s what men gain from this connection:

  • Reduced performance pressure: There’s less pressure compared to penetrative sex, making it easier to relax.

  • Improved communication: You learn how to express what feels good — a valuable skill for all sexual relationships.

  • Greater sexual self-awareness: Exploring touch with another man can reveal new pleasure zones and rhythms.

  • Emotional intimacy: Many report a sense of trust, safety, and closeness.

  • Safe sex: No risk of STIs or pregnancy from this act alone.

Plus, mutual masturbation often becomes a space where men talk about their desires, vulnerabilities, and experiences — something that many male friendships rarely allow.

Whether you're exploring your body or building trust with a partner, it’s a valuable part of a healthy sexual toolkit.

Edging is a skill.

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Masturbation is a perfectly natural and healthy sexual activity that has many physical and mental benefits. 

However, some question whether it is a harmful habit that leads to negative consequences in their personal life and relationships. 

In this provocative and educational episode, Michael and Sex Coach, Craig Cassey answer your burning questions about masturbation, including topics such as:

  • The benefits of masturbation
  • When is it too much?
  • Masturbation while in a relationship
  • Is porn helpful or harmful?
  • Feeling guilty
  • Tips for mindful masturbation

Join Michael and Craig as they share their own experiences and provide their best coaching tips for more mindful masturbation.. 

Today's Guest

Craig Cassey is a professional life, executive, and sex coach.